An Interview with Almine about Relationship
by Rogier Chardet
Q. You are in the middle of finding a lot of answers about relationship. Why is that? And will these issues be coming up for other masters at this time as well?
A. Relationship in all forms and its accompanying dysfunctionality, is the greatest and last bastion of illusion on Earth. It is time for the lightworkers of this planet to be ruthlessly honest with themselves in evaluating areas of dysfunctionality in relationships.
Q. I would imagine that the soap operas, novels and Hollywoood have given skewed impressions about the role of men and women?
A. They may have invented some new dysfunctionalities, but for the most part they tapped into already existing ones…
Q. Such as?
A. The dysfunctional habit of choosing partners that exhibit traits that make one feel superior, or in a care-taking mode.
Q. You have always said that when we don’t feel lovable we settle for feeling needed. Is this the reason why?
A. Certainly one of them. But we also choose partners who “need” us because we are in control…
Q. Could you name a situation that illustrates this…what I mean is, give a scenario of where this would be done?
A. Certainly. It is common to infantilize women in Hollywood and women have played “immature” roles to be liked by men since it has often been the case that men have been threatened by a woman expressing in fullness and balance.
Q. So it is the unwholeness that attracts and fullness that threatens…not a very good beginning for offspring!
A. Exactly, I agree with you, a very poor beginning for the next generation. But men conversely manipulate women by playing the confused little boy role and benefitting from their mothering instinct to “take care” of them and accept the unacceptable.
Q. I imagine these symbiotic relationships keep everyone from growing…what else should we be aware of?
A. The desire to save can also stem from seeing the un-wholeness, through a romanticized form of sentimentality…
Q. What do you mean?
A. Well, we call it “vulnerability” or the “sensitive frailness” resulting from a hard life. The truth is that every being in existence, no matter how hard their life has been, has been given the compensating factors in their life to be whole. Some use it, some don’t.
Q. That is a very thought-provoking statement. You’re saying there is no excuse for un-wholeness?
A. Not unless we want to digress to buying into victimhood as a reality!
Q. No, no…I would hope we’ve all left that behind!
A. Yes, one would, yet intelligent men and women choose to live it in partnerships all the time.
Q. Is there any other particular relationship flaw we should be aware of?
A. Duality has been healed. As part of the planetary ascension, the maleness and femaleness within each of us has become androgynous. Expecting men and women to play the old feminine and masculine roles, is to base relationships on an obsolete fallacy.
Q. So we have to be open to new ways of relating…?
A. Exactly.
Q. Thank you for these answers – it certainly has given us a lot to think about!
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